“Love is a decision, it is a judgment, it is a promise. If love were only a feeling, there would be no basis for the promise to love each other forever. A feeling comes and it may go. How can I judge that it will stay forever, when my act does not involve judgment and decision.”
— Erich Fromm (The Art of Loving)








August 10th, 2009 at 10:32
Love is indeed a decision. Very nice pic, by the way. :)
August 10th, 2009 at 15:52
Talk about food for thought. I can’t make up my mind if I agree or disagree.
August 10th, 2009 at 22:06
I have this book. A very good reading!!!!
August 11th, 2009 at 01:51
i love the picture! i can’t believe i’m soon taking photos as ivvid as this. ^-^
i agree to that. especially in marriage, love is a promise and a commitment. it is the only way that will keep the marriage together.
August 11th, 2009 at 01:51
*vivid, sorry
August 11th, 2009 at 08:07
Lovely pic! I agree, we love, we decide.
August 11th, 2009 at 11:29
sinta: why is that? :) i’d love to hear yr views.
odette: this photo was shot with a Canon point & shoot actually :D
August 12th, 2009 at 13:38
Love is when you hold her hand, your heart jumps and a nice feeling runs between your fingers that you don’t want to let her go.
Deciding to hold her forever, that’s your brain talking.